Finding the right Valentine’s Day gift is probably the most difficult shopping experience in any man’s life. It isn’t like buying a birthday gift — choosing a gift for this special occasion won’t just show your affection toward her, but your degree of commitment as well.

The nature of the gift can reflect how much you care, or don’t care, about her. The meaning of your gift also varies according to the seriousness and the type of relationship you’re in. Here are a few basic gift ideas, depending on your particular relationship level.

You’ve gone out with her a few times, the level of commitment is low, and you’re simply having a lot of fun. What do you buy her? This situation is the trickiest of them all because the wrong gift can take the relationship from casual dating to a full-fledged commitment.

Buying her the usual card and flowers is acceptable for this early stage in a relationship, or when your involvement is relatively weak.

On the other hand, if the relationship is strong and its future seems bright, opt for a more original present. For example, a sexy blouse or any form of eveningwear is classy enough to show her that you put some effort into selecting her gift.

Women generally appreciate that you spent some time selecting a gift. So it’s a good idea to listen to what she says, pick up on a hint she may mention in passing, and then surprise her with it.

Every man, at one point in his life, will hook up with a woman simply for sex — and amazing sex at that. This type of relationship is particularly exciting when Valentine’s Day comes around, and selecting her gift can be amusing in itself. Choosing the right gift will hopefully guide the intensity of the evening and make it a night to remember.

Most of the time, guys will opt to buy her sexy lingerie. Purchasing lingerie is a little clich, but it’s generally well-received by women. Another fashionable gift is a sexy dress she can wear for the Valentine’s Day dinner. Keep it sexual by insisting that she leave her underwear at home.

However, instead of buying her these conventional gifts, a suggestion would be to get her a basket of sex toys. If you want to go all the way (in more ways than one), then rent a nice room and try to incorporate all these gifts into your evening.

The married man will probably run out of original gift ideas sooner or later. He doesn’t necessarily need to show commitment with his gifts, but he needs to set the mood for the upcoming passionate evening. In this situation, buy her an unconventional set of silk sheets, which can be purchased at any high-end department store. This gift will likely be expensive and surely has a sexual connotation.

The more conventional alternative for a married man is getting his wife some jewelry. This gift idea will please any woman, married or not…

Remember these are only suggestions and none of these gifts represent the perfect choice. Each man knows what his woman enjoys, so my advice is to think about what she appreciates the most and use that as a guide.

Good luck and have a great Valentine’s Day.

By Chris Rovny

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Are you looking for a sexy holiday gift for your loved one? Well look no further. We have come up with some great ideas for that special someone on your list. We are sure they will love some of these romantic holiday gifts.

For the woman in your life - get her lingerie. You can get her something classy but sexy like a corset or a bustier that she can wear under her clothes too.

You can’t go wrong with jewelry so spice up the jewelry with some nipple rings or nipple pasties

For the man in your life get him some little shorts to wear around the house. The best part about these rip off shorts is the easy access for a quickie!

Get some massage oil and give your loved one a massage. Maybe she’ll give you one too afterwards.

Make some sexy coupons that can be used throughout the year.

Try a Better Sex Kit that has all the goodies you will need to bring in the new year.

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“We love because it’s the only true adventure.” — Nikki Giovanni

“Grief can take care of itself, but to get the full value of joy, you must have somebody to divide it with.” — Mark Twain

“You don’t love a woman because she’s beautiful; she is beautiful because you love her.” — Anonymous

“Love makes your soul crawl out from its hiding place.” — Zora Neale Hurston

“Love is the only sane and satisfactory answer to the problem of human existence.” — Erich Fromm

“Be generous in the bedroom. Share your sandwich.” — Homer Simpson

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Here are a few ideas if you are planning to make your own love coupons whether it’s for an anniversary, birthday or for no reason at all:

1. No grouching.
2. Pick up my own clothes.
3. Find my owns shoes just this once.
4. Actually using the clothes hangers.
5. Remembering what that little rug at the door is for.
6. Actually putting my dishes in the dishwasher, rather than in the sink.
7. Really listening to how your day was and responding appropriately.
8. Hitting the clothes hamper when my clothes come off.
9. Putting the toilet seat down, even though it is just as easy for you to put it down.
10. Kissing you without having an ulterior motive.

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How to Have a Happy Valentines’ Day 10 easy ways couples can show they care

Valentine’s Day is an emotionally charged holiday in which relationships can renew or sometimes break down. Jennifer Coleman, Rosen Law Firm’s Life Transition Coach and a National Certified Counselor, has some easy tips on ways to show you care this Valentine’s Day:

1. Don’t forget about the holiday completely or you’re basically telling your sweetheart ‘I don’t care’. 2. Don’t pick up something cheap at a gas station because it was fast and convenient. If you’re going to buy your loved one a gift, be thoughtful and sincere. 3. Remember and acknowledge that marking your milestones as a couple is important. 4. Valentine’s Day gifts don’t have to be flowers, candies, or expensive jewelry. It can be about making your sweetheart’s favorite dinner or watching a movie that you both like together. Choose a gesture that involves what you have come to know about each other over time. 5. Celebrating this holiday doesn’t have to cost money, if that’s what you both decide. Instead, give your loved one a gift certificate for services redeemable by you. This could involve a massage or even washing their car. 6. If you’re going to exchange gifts, set a spending limit so that one person doesn’t feel like they received something less. Make it equal. 7. Tell your sweetheart things you appreciate most about them and the time you’ve spent together over the years. 8. If you can, hire a baby-sitter. Don’t use the kids as an excuse to why you can’t do something together as a couple. 9. Work within your budget. Don’t go into debt celebrating Valentine’s Day; rather do something special you can afford. 10. Don’t worry about making it the perfect Valentine’s Day. Just have fun with the person you love the most.

by Jennifer Coleman

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