We’ve probably all encountered a man that is threatened by sex toys. He thinks you want a toy because he doesn’t please you, or that he won’t be able to compete with the toy, when the truth is sex toys can be used to enhance the pleasure of both partners. I don’t think any of us would rather have the toy than the man, but they sure can be great together.

            If you have been wanting to introduce toys to your relationship but are worried about how your partner will react, the trick is to start off slow. Don’t bring home a life sized penis shaped vibrator first, as he may view that as a replacement for him. You can get to that, but first you have to build the foundation.

            A great first “toy” for a couple is the Sensual Bath Set. It comes with a Kama Sutra of Sensual Bathing book, and a soft vibrating spa sponge and it’s built in water-resistant bullet. It’s cutesy and fun, nothing any man would be threatened of! Run a bath, light some candles, maybe put on some light music, and ask him to join you. Enjoy the bath for a bit and when he gets relaxed and in the mood start giving him his sponge bath! If he’s loving it, go wild! If he seems a little reluctant, just stick with his upper body for a bit, and then let him bathe you. He may just be more comfortable taking the lead himself.

            Later in the week read the book with him to get more ideas on a sensual bath, or leave it for him to find and read on his own. After you’ve taken several fun baths together and he has no problems letting the vibrating sponge wander, you are ready to graduate on to your next toy! Just remember to let him know it is about enhancing the pleasure for both of you if he still has any qualms.

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I’m going to share with you what has been my most popular oral sex trick for years. All of my friends have reported back with rave reviews, and it is quite simple. When you start to give your man a blow job, before you really get into it, tease him for a while. I like to pretend his penis is an ice cream cone! I know it sounds silly, but it really works! Think about how you eat an ice cream cone. You lick it from bottom to top, or around and around. Just occasionally you put the whole thing in your mouth. Sometimes you have to catch that melting bit before it drips off. Do this for a few minutes before you really get into the sucking and see for yourself how much he loves it!

Do you need a little more convincing to pretend it’s an ice cream cone? Well wouldn’t you know there is a banana split flavored Happy Penis Massage Cream? Just rub some on and lick the yummy banana split away! It will even do double duty- taste great for you and make him feel warm and tingly.

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No matter what position you’re in you can enhance the experience by gently exhaling on each other’s skin. This adds soft steamy heat to other sensitive areas like your neck, nipples, or inside of your wrists which will give you tingles from head to toe.

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Show off:

Although your inner bad girl may get off on the idea of being caught in the act, the real you may not feel right about sneaking off to a bar bathroom but you can feed any secret exhibitionist appetites by having sex in front of a window with the lights off. Stand up against the window facing out and have him take you from behind. You’ll get a rush from just the possibility of being watched.

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A little unpredictability during sex can make the experience even more intense for you. While you are in the missionary position have him tease you by mixing up his movements like slipping in just a little, going in halfway, and thrusting deeply in random order.

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