Bullets are one of the most common sex toys available today, but some women aren’t quite sure what to do with them. Even if you are familiar with them, maybe you can find a new use you never thought of!

1. Hold the bullet against the clitoris during sex. In the missionary position it will stay in place with less help. In the doggy style position have your partner reach around and hold it against you. Orgasm will come much easier with clitoral stimulation in addition to vaginal stimulation.

2. When performing oral sex on your man, use it around his testicles and anus and lockjaw will be a thing of the past! He can use it on you too during oral, rubbing it around your vagina and clitoris. His tongue will appreciate it as much as you will!

3. Use alone. A bullet is one of the most popular toys available for masturbation. Try starting off rubbing it along your inner thighs to build up excitement before moving on to the more obvious.

4. Use with an attachment. There are many sleeves and rings and such that are made to use along with a bullet. The Wittle Wabbit Sleeve is a favorite, with delightful ears to tickle your fancy.

5. Give him the remote. With a remote controlled bullet, put the bullet inside your panties and surrender to him!

6. Insert vaginally or anally, but make sure you are using a bullet with a cord before doing so. If he is up for it, insert it anally in him during sex- it will massage his prostate and blow his mind, but don’t expect it to last long!

7. Use on nipples. This is especially nice if you have two bullets. What could be better than one for each nipple while he takes care of you down below?

8. If you do have two, use on each other simultaneously.

9. Take your waterproof bullet in the bath or shower for some fun water play.

10. Use during a massage. The vibrations feel great on the sole of the feet and pressed against knots and tight muscles in the back.

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We’ve probably all encountered a man that is threatened by sex toys. He thinks you want a toy because he doesn’t please you, or that he won’t be able to compete with the toy, when the truth is sex toys can be used to enhance the pleasure of both partners. I don’t think any of us would rather have the toy than the man, but they sure can be great together.

            If you have been wanting to introduce toys to your relationship but are worried about how your partner will react, the trick is to start off slow. Don’t bring home a life sized penis shaped vibrator first, as he may view that as a replacement for him. You can get to that, but first you have to build the foundation.

            A great first “toy” for a couple is the Sensual Bath Set. It comes with a Kama Sutra of Sensual Bathing book, and a soft vibrating spa sponge and it’s built in water-resistant bullet. It’s cutesy and fun, nothing any man would be threatened of! Run a bath, light some candles, maybe put on some light music, and ask him to join you. Enjoy the bath for a bit and when he gets relaxed and in the mood start giving him his sponge bath! If he’s loving it, go wild! If he seems a little reluctant, just stick with his upper body for a bit, and then let him bathe you. He may just be more comfortable taking the lead himself.

            Later in the week read the book with him to get more ideas on a sensual bath, or leave it for him to find and read on his own. After you’ve taken several fun baths together and he has no problems letting the vibrating sponge wander, you are ready to graduate on to your next toy! Just remember to let him know it is about enhancing the pleasure for both of you if he still has any qualms.

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While there are some vibrators and dildos/dongs that are intended for anal use, this category covers all other kinds of anal toys - butt plugs and anal beads. When using any anal toy, be sure to apply plenty of lube to the toy and your anus for smooth, safe penetration.

Butt plugs tend to vary widely in length, but they’re generally wider than most other sex toys meant for anal use. Because of this feature, butt plugs are mainly the playground for experienced anal toy users instead of beginners. Butt plugs also contain a large flat base so butt plugs can be easily removed.

Anal beads are a string of several beads that can be inserted anally. These beads start off small and then grow larger, offering something for beginners and experienced sex toy users. Some of the anal beads even vibrate with movement so just walking to the water cooler can send your rear tingling.

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There are a variety of sex toys out there to pick from. Different styles, sizes and materials make it hard to figure out which one is best. There are some questions that you need to ask yourself first.

What do you want to use it for – clitoris, vaginal, or anal? Do you want something that will hit the clitoris and vagina at the same time? Then a dual action vibe like a rabbit or pearl panther is for you. If you want something for just anal play then remember to make sure it has a flared base so that it doesn’t slip all the way in. G-spot vibrators, glass dildos, and anal vibrators are for more advanced stimulation.

How strong do you want your vibration? If you masturbate with a firm rub on the clitoris rather than a light touch, you are more likely to appreciate a strong vibration. Picking a toy with variable speed control so that you can play with it to see what works for you would be a good way to go.

How big do you want it? If you are someone who travels a lot then maybe something small like a pocket rocket is the way to go. If you plan to use the vibe for penetration, the girth of the toy may be just as crucial as the vibrating intensity. If you are not sure how much girth you want, go smaller rather than larger so you will know your new toy will fit.

How much do you want to spend? A bullet or vibrating egg may be the least expensive option for you but don’t let their size full you. They are quite strong and can be used all over both of your bodies in all of your erogenous zones. Some people like to start off with the cheaper one if they have never had a vibrator before but if you talk to anyone who has had one they will tell you that the deluxe, spinning dual action vibes are the best way to go. These are what some people refer to as the pearl rabbit, pearly panther, or lickin lizard vibrators.

Sex toys have come a long way. They now have different materials to pick from too so get familiar with them and have fun trying out all kinds of different ones to see what works best for you.

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Product Usage Guidelines
Never insert any product to the point that it cannot be easily controlled and removed. If you lose a toy in your vagina most often you can just straddle a toilet and relax your muscles ~ coughing or sneezing will help expel a toy from the vagina. If you lose a toy in the anus you MUST visit the ER for removal.

Always clean sex toys before and after use, never sharing toys if not cleaned before hand and never putting anything into the vagina after it’s been in the anus (unless you use a condom and remove the condom before inserting into the vagina). Easy tip: Keep vaginal toys and anal toys separate and use only in those areas.

Make sure you don’t use a silicone lube with a silicone toy. It will melt and fuse together!

If pain or discomfort occurs during toys use, stop immediately.

Do not use toys on broken or irritated skin.

Do not store your vibrator with the batteries in it. The batteries may corrode and damage your toy.

Never use your electric or battery-powered vibrator in water unless it was specified “waterproof.”

Water may damage the motor or result in electric shock!

Cleaning Your Toys

Temptations Parties sells two great toy cleaners (Mighty Tidy and ViroFree) that sanitize and sterilize and work on all toys, but for added information I have listed other ways to clean your toys. Of course you can use soap and water to clean your toys, but soap can dry our your skin and will do the same to your favorite toys depending on what its made of, plus, not all soap is antibacterial. If your toy is not waterproof you will damage the toy by submerging it in water ~ just don’t submerge the battery pack. You can also dab on hydrogen peroxide for a super clean feel. Never submerge electric toys!

Silicone: Vastly superior to rubber or vinyl dildos, silicone warms up quickly, retains body heat, is non-porous and easy-to-clean. Cleaning: Run it through the dishwasher or boil it on the stove (3-5 minutes) and viola! ~ your toy is sterilized. To keep the silky feel and refresh your toy, sprinkle with cornstarch.

Jellies: These dildos are made of a translucent, soft, and flexible substance that looks like it contains air bubbles. Cleaning: This material is a non-porous form of rubber that can be cleaned with mild soap and hot water. To keep the silky feel and refresh your toy, sprinkle with cornstarch.

Cyberskin: This material is soft and supple, and looks and feels remarkably like skin. Cleaning: Rinse with hot water (avoid soap or harsh detergents); to keep the silky feel and refresh your toy, sprinkle with cornstarch.

Latex: Use only water-based lubes on latex, as oil-based substances will break it down. Most toys are not made of pure latex but a combination of latex and jelly or silicone. Cleaning: Latex is non-porous and easy to clean with soap and water.

Plastic: Hard plastic toys are very easy to clean. They have smooth surfaces. Cleaning: Soap and water.

Leather harnesses can be cleaned with a damp rag, and nylon webbing harnesses can go in the wash with the rest of your laundry.

Oil products destroy latex! That means oil-based lubricants, massage oils, butter, olive oil…anything containing oil. Use only water-based lubricant with latex.

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