Bullets are one of the most common sex toys available today, but some women aren’t quite sure what to do with them. Even if you are familiar with them, maybe you can find a new use you never thought of!

1. Hold the bullet against the clitoris during sex. In the missionary position it will stay in place with less help. In the doggy style position have your partner reach around and hold it against you. Orgasm will come much easier with clitoral stimulation in addition to vaginal stimulation.

2. When performing oral sex on your man, use it around his testicles and anus and lockjaw will be a thing of the past! He can use it on you too during oral, rubbing it around your vagina and clitoris. His tongue will appreciate it as much as you will!

3. Use alone. A bullet is one of the most popular toys available for masturbation. Try starting off rubbing it along your inner thighs to build up excitement before moving on to the more obvious.

4. Use with an attachment. There are many sleeves and rings and such that are made to use along with a bullet. The Wittle Wabbit Sleeve is a favorite, with delightful ears to tickle your fancy.

5. Give him the remote. With a remote controlled bullet, put the bullet inside your panties and surrender to him!

6. Insert vaginally or anally, but make sure you are using a bullet with a cord before doing so. If he is up for it, insert it anally in him during sex- it will massage his prostate and blow his mind, but don’t expect it to last long!

7. Use on nipples. This is especially nice if you have two bullets. What could be better than one for each nipple while he takes care of you down below?

8. If you do have two, use on each other simultaneously.

9. Take your waterproof bullet in the bath or shower for some fun water play.

10. Use during a massage. The vibrations feel great on the sole of the feet and pressed against knots and tight muscles in the back.

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We’ve probably all encountered a man that is threatened by sex toys. He thinks you want a toy because he doesn’t please you, or that he won’t be able to compete with the toy, when the truth is sex toys can be used to enhance the pleasure of both partners. I don’t think any of us would rather have the toy than the man, but they sure can be great together.

            If you have been wanting to introduce toys to your relationship but are worried about how your partner will react, the trick is to start off slow. Don’t bring home a life sized penis shaped vibrator first, as he may view that as a replacement for him. You can get to that, but first you have to build the foundation.

            A great first “toy” for a couple is the Sensual Bath Set. It comes with a Kama Sutra of Sensual Bathing book, and a soft vibrating spa sponge and it’s built in water-resistant bullet. It’s cutesy and fun, nothing any man would be threatened of! Run a bath, light some candles, maybe put on some light music, and ask him to join you. Enjoy the bath for a bit and when he gets relaxed and in the mood start giving him his sponge bath! If he’s loving it, go wild! If he seems a little reluctant, just stick with his upper body for a bit, and then let him bathe you. He may just be more comfortable taking the lead himself.

            Later in the week read the book with him to get more ideas on a sensual bath, or leave it for him to find and read on his own. After you’ve taken several fun baths together and he has no problems letting the vibrating sponge wander, you are ready to graduate on to your next toy! Just remember to let him know it is about enhancing the pleasure for both of you if he still has any qualms.

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I’m going to share with you what has been my most popular oral sex trick for years. All of my friends have reported back with rave reviews, and it is quite simple. When you start to give your man a blow job, before you really get into it, tease him for a while. I like to pretend his penis is an ice cream cone! I know it sounds silly, but it really works! Think about how you eat an ice cream cone. You lick it from bottom to top, or around and around. Just occasionally you put the whole thing in your mouth. Sometimes you have to catch that melting bit before it drips off. Do this for a few minutes before you really get into the sucking and see for yourself how much he loves it!

Do you need a little more convincing to pretend it’s an ice cream cone? Well wouldn’t you know there is a banana split flavored Happy Penis Massage Cream? Just rub some on and lick the yummy banana split away! It will even do double duty- taste great for you and make him feel warm and tingly.

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I’ve been dishing out sex advice for over a decade now, but this is the first time in writing. I must admit that while I’m excited about this new venture- I’m also a bit nervous, maybe even a little awkward. I don’t quite know how far I should go yet, but it won’t take long to get a little more down and dirty.

 

It’s a lot like the first time with a new partner. I’ve been with the same man for a while and sometimes I miss that nervous excitement; the stumbling along and bumping heads and figuring each other out. If you’ve been monogamous for a while and miss the newness, you can always find some other “firsts” to experience together. Summer is perfect for having your first time on a blanket out in a field, or in a tent while camping. You can have plenty of first times together at home too. My man recently shaved my legs using the Sensually Bare Shaving Cream for the first time. Talk about nervous! But oh, what a turn on! Not only are my legs silky smooth, but we had a great time doing it together.  Just start thinking of things you haven’t done together yet, and I guarantee it will get your blood pumping!

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Traditionally, “foreplay” was considered to be something that a man had to do to get his partner ready for sexual intercourse. Today, foreplay has become an integral part of the whole lovemaking experience. It is true that impromptu sexual encounters without foreplay can sometimes be some of the best sexual experiences, but in general, most women will agree that good sexual encounters mean that you learn the importance of foreplay. A more vigilant form of foreplay will bring increased pleasure to both partners, and make the whole lovemaking experience more enjoyable.

Spice up your sex life

Especially with age, both partners will need a little extra spice to get fully aroused and achieve maximum pleasure. Hence you need to learn the importance of foreplay. The man will need to prolong foreplay to get an erection and the woman will need the same to become properly lubricated. Most sex experts agree that there is no such thing as spending too much time on foreplay. The trick is to start intercourse when both partners are peaking with excitement and are having a hard time controlling their desires.

What is foreplay?

You’ve gotta learn the importance of foreplay, which can encompass a wide range of activities, including hugging, fondling, undressing, kissing, petting, and performing oral sex. Why is foreplay so important? First of all, men who cuddle and kiss their partners and know how to enjoy sensitive foreplay will often find that their partners will not only enjoy sexual intercourse more, but will also see their partners reach orgasm more easily. Most women need prolonged stimulation in order to reach a state of complete arousal, and foreplay will provide them with the required stimulation.

No ultimate foreplay

There is no such thing as the ultimate foreplay, and it is not about pressing the right buttons in the right order. It is about understanding what makes your partner get hot and delivering the things that make her experience intense pleasure. All women are different. Some get off on being lightly kissed all over their necks while others enjoy direct oral stimulation.

There are many ways to give your partner extreme sensations, but one thing is for sure: It all begins in her brain. Simply tell her how beautiful she is and how much you appreciate her sexy body. By complimenting her appearance, especially if her confidence level is low, you are giving her added security and excitement, as well as giving her good reasons to go all out with the foreplay.

Set the mood

To learn the importance of foreplay you have to know how to set the mood. The next step is paying attention to romantic details. Creating the right environment for sexual intercourse can be crucial, especially at mature stages in the relationship. For example, make sure the room is warm, the lighting subdued, and the sheets clean. Once the mood is right, take the time to undress her because the act of removing your partner’s clothes can be an important part of foreplay. Many have found that undressing increases the eroticism, it stimulates and intensifies the feeling.

Often, women spend a lot of money on nice lingerie because it makes them feel sexy and they want it to stay on for a while. Instead of getting her completely naked, remove her bra strap, kiss her shoulder, then put it back on again. Do the same with her underwear, and, again; compliment how good she looks in it.

Kissing and foreplay

During foreplay, go as slow as you can. This will tease her. Begin by kissing and caressing her. A kiss is usually the first physical expression of desire but it is also often forgotten during sexual intercourse. During intercourse, you should kiss every part of your partner’s body and not be restricted to the mouth. Most women complain that their partners don’t kiss long enough and rush the movement directly to the genital area. Don’t be shy to experiment on every part of her body and remember to prolong the foreplay with more kissing and caressing.

A good time for learning

This article focused on the importance of foreplay as it is a learning experience. Foreplay is the perfect time to spend understanding what your partner likes because without that, you will never learn what she really needs to be fully stimulated. Don’t be shy; ask for feedback and also give your own. Both partners profit from good communication during foreplay and lovemaking. Also, without cutting the intensity of the moment, ask her what she really likes and what makes her go wild.

The time of her life

As a general rule, if she is satisfied with her sexual experience, she will usually make sure that you are satisfied as well. Good luck, and remember that only practice makes perfect. Don’t ever forget the importance of foreplay.

By David Strovny

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