Bullets are one of the most common sex toys available today, but some women aren’t quite sure what to do with them. Even if you are familiar with them, maybe you can find a new use you never thought of!

1. Hold the bullet against the clitoris during sex. In the missionary position it will stay in place with less help. In the doggy style position have your partner reach around and hold it against you. Orgasm will come much easier with clitoral stimulation in addition to vaginal stimulation.

2. When performing oral sex on your man, use it around his testicles and anus and lockjaw will be a thing of the past! He can use it on you too during oral, rubbing it around your vagina and clitoris. His tongue will appreciate it as much as you will!

3. Use alone. A bullet is one of the most popular toys available for masturbation. Try starting off rubbing it along your inner thighs to build up excitement before moving on to the more obvious.

4. Use with an attachment. There are many sleeves and rings and such that are made to use along with a bullet. The Wittle Wabbit Sleeve is a favorite, with delightful ears to tickle your fancy.

5. Give him the remote. With a remote controlled bullet, put the bullet inside your panties and surrender to him!

6. Insert vaginally or anally, but make sure you are using a bullet with a cord before doing so. If he is up for it, insert it anally in him during sex- it will massage his prostate and blow his mind, but don’t expect it to last long!

7. Use on nipples. This is especially nice if you have two bullets. What could be better than one for each nipple while he takes care of you down below?

8. If you do have two, use on each other simultaneously.

9. Take your waterproof bullet in the bath or shower for some fun water play.

10. Use during a massage. The vibrations feel great on the sole of the feet and pressed against knots and tight muscles in the back.

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What is an orgasm? An orgasm is an emotional and physical experience that occurs during a “sexual response cycle.” Before an orgasm, your body becomes increasingly excited. Breathing, heart rate and blood pressure increases. The pupils of the eyes dilate; the lips of the mouth darken, the nipples become erect, the clitoris swells, becomes hard and exposed, (much like the aroused penis). With increased excitement, the skin becomes flushed and it begins to sweat. In women the labia, clitoris, vagina and pelvic organs enlarge in very much the same way as the aroused penis enlarges. Sometimes there is a plateau of excitement which is held for several minutes before you are about to orgasm.

Orgasm is the point at which all the tension is suddenly released in a series of involuntary and pleasurable muscular contractions that may be felt in the vagina and/or uterus (some women do experience orgasms without contractions).

The orgasm happens when excitement seems to go over the edge ~ a climax or crescendo is reached which may last several seconds or longer. During orgasm the body stiffens and the muscles contract.
Involuntary muscle contractions and spasms may occur in various parts of the body, including your legs, stomach, arms, and back. The muscles of the vagina relax and contract rapidly, as do the muscles of the uterus. The glands of the vagina (Bartholin’s glands) discharge a watery secretion, which acts to lubricate the vagina.

The main physical changes that occur during a sexual experience are a result of vasocongestion. This is the accumulation of blood in various parts of the body. Muscular tension increases and other changes occur throughout your body also.

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It’s no secret that many women have multiple orgasms. Masters and Johnson documented this occurrence more than 25 years ago. But, do they serve a purpose besides from a pleasurable one? Theories suggest that muscular contractions associated with orgasms pull sperm from the vagina to the cervix, where the sperm can then swim their way to the fallopian tubes to reach the egg. Researchers believe that if a woman climaxes up until 45 minutes after her lover ejaculates, she will retain significantly more sperm than she does after non-orgasmic sex.

We will talk more about multiple orgasms later.

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According to this article from Forbes there are many benefits of orgasm and sex. You have an improved sense of smell, reduced risk of heart disease, weight loss (sex is exercise after all), reduced depression, pain relief, a better immune system, better teeth, a happy prostate, and better bladder control.
In a study in 2001 a study found that having sex three or more times a week, men reduced their risk of heart attack or stroke by half. You can burn up to 200 calories which is about as much as running on the treadmill for about 15 minutes.

You can read more about it here.

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The difference between a clitoral and vaginal orgasm is where you are being stimulated to achieve orgasm, not where you feel the orgasm. The clitoris has a central role in elevating feelings of sexual tension. During sexual excitement, the clitoris swells and changes position. The blood vessels through the whole pelvic area also swell, causing engorgement and creating a feeling of fullness and sexual sensitivity. Your inner vaginal lips swell and change shape. Your vagina balloons upward and your uterus shifts position in your pelvis.

For some women, the outer third of their vagina and the cervix are also very sensitive or even more sensitive than the clitoris. When stimulated during intercourse or other vaginal penetration, these women do have intense orgasms. This would be what is referred to as a vaginal orgasm without clitoral stimulation.

In reality, orgasms are a very individual experience and there is no one correct pattern of sexual response. Whatever feels good to you, makes you feel alive and happy, and connected with your partner is what matters.

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