Every woman wants to know techniques for giving oral sex to her male partner and here it is.

You should start with a little teasing. Tease the head of the penis with your tongue. The head is the most sensitive part of the penis. Pay particular attention to the tip of the penis. This is the equivalent to the female clitoris; it is a super-sensitive bundle of nerves.

Basic Technique:

Slide your hand up and down the penis, closing it slightly when you reach the top and opening it slightly as you move back down. While doing this keep his penis moving in and out of your mouth (lips covering teeth) which should be applying a firm but comfortable pressure.

Next lick his penis as if it were a lollypop, using long slow movements over the head and up the sides. Take his penis into your mouth and swirl your tongue around the head.

Deep-throating is where you take the whole penis into your mouth rather than keeping a hand or two on it. This can be very difficult and uncomfortable, resulting in gagging. If you aren’t comfortable deep-throating your partner it’s ok because the head of the penis is the most sensitive part anyway so that’s what’s most important.

Don’t be shy about adding something a bit tasty to your playtime. A little flavored lubricant, chocolate, honey, pop rocks, ice, a sip of something hot or anything else that you think tastes good will make this a feast that can satisfy both of you. Pop some toothpaste in your mouth before you put his penis in your mouth and it will give a very cool feeling (temperature-wise). Another trick is to try popping an Altoids into your mouth before you begin. These curiously strong mints can give a fabulous tingle.

Also try twisting your head to one direction as your hand twists gently the other way. Men can find it very erotic to watch you lick their cock so be sure to remember that part of sex is showmanship; look him in the eye and while you do dirty things to him. Judge his reaction and what he likes and match it with that you are comfortable doing.

Tease your partner by changing the speed, get him really aroused by moving faster and sucking harder and then slow down so that he does not reach orgasm. Take him to the very brink of orgasm (not easy) and then slow him down. Enjoy it (he will), you are in complete control.

Discuss the matter of ejaculation before you start. If you would not like him to ejaculate in your mouth, let him know that and ask him to give you a shoulder tap or maybe a verbal announcement before this happens. You can also have him wear a condom (flavored, if you like) so he can let his ejaculate go without discomfort or awkwardness.

Always remember to keep an open line of communication between you and your partner as to what both of you like and dislike. Try new things and see what works and what doesn’t.

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Tip # 1: Fellatio

Fellatio is the technical term for oral sex performed on a man. Its root is from the Latin verb meaning “to suck.” For many men, oral sex is a more intense experience than intercourse. This is due to the concentration of stimulation to the penis by mouth, tongue, and hands. Each man has different areas of concentrated sensitivity, so it’s important for a man to communicate what is pleasurable to him during oral sex. If he is not comfortable speaking out loud about his needs, he should gently guide his lover either with his hands or let her know when she’s doing the right thing by making some oral indication such as telling her he likes what she’s doing or sometimes even just a moan will send the message!

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Tip # 2: Fellatio: Where To Start

If a man is already aroused when you begin to perform fellatio, keep in mind that moving right to the sucking portion of the experience may be too much. Begin by kissing around the area. Massage his hips and thighs, even his belly. Running your fingers over his scrotum and up the shaft of his penis is a nice warm-up. You can begin to use your mouth, again, by kissing around the penis thereby building up arousal even more. There are a lot of nerve endings throughout the penis, with most of them concentrated at the tip. When you do take his penis into your mouth, keep this in mind. Don’t spend too much time stimulating the tip, rather lick along the length of the penis and return to the tip throughout the experience. As he gets closer to orgasm, more time can be spent on direct stimulation. Some men enjoy when their partners use their hand to duplicate the sucking motion of their mouth. Others prefer not to be stroked as well. Experiment to find out what your partner likes best.

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Tip # 3: Spit or Swallow

An uncomfortable question for a lot of women is what to do with a mouth full of semen after oral sex has ended. Some women have no problem swallowing the fluid. Some even enjoy the taste. Others are disgusted at the thought. There are a couple of options for discreet semen disposal. Women who don’t mind swallowing can simply collect the semen under their tongue, where there are no taste buds before swallowing. If she really doesn’t wish to swallow, she can always continue sucking during ejaculation and, if using her hand, let the semen serve as a final lubricant to enhance the final moments of release.

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Tip # 4: Cunnilingus: Where To Start

Begin by making sure the woman is comfortable, preferably reclining, perhaps with a pillow under her hips (this can assist you as well by giving you a better angle). Kiss and or gently lick around the outside of her vagina, up over her belly, and along her thighs. You can spread her labia — the “lips” of her vagina — with your tongue or fingers and tease around the clitoris. It’s not advisable to begin directly stimulating the clitoris as some women find this too intense. Once you’ve built up enough arousal, softly lick on and around her clitoris. Alternate movements of your tongue, paying close attention to how she reacts. This will allow you to learn which movements she likes more than others. You may also wish to incorporate penetration of the vagina with a finger or two. You can stimulate her G-Spot by curving your finger upward toward the front of her vagina while stimulating her clitoris with your tongue. Be creative with your cunnilingus technique and listen to your partner to discover what works for her.

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